Grave disagreement and arguments between the spouses; should we advise them to get divorced?
Question I am a married man; I have children and a wife. But I am always arguing with my wife. I have tried several times to solve my problem with her, but to no avail. She does not agree to divorce (talaaq), and she does not please me from a sexual point of view. Our culture does not allow me to take a second wife, for people do not give their daughters in marriage to a man who is already married. I am afraid, if this situation continues like this, that I may commit unlawful actions. Please advise me. I hope that you can advise me sincerely, and tell me how to solve this problem of mine, and what is the best solution. Answer Praise be to Allah. Firstly: Families are not without problems, some of which are easy to resolve and some of which are difficult. One who wants to solve his own problems or the problems of someone else must understand the causes that led to those differences and conflict and resentment, whether it is between spouses, between friends, or between fath...